I am a pensioner and I cover my expenses with my pension. I do not want to be a burden to my son and daughter-in-law. But for the last year my daughter-in-law keeps taking my pension, saying that we have a loan to pay for.
Then I find out quite naively that there is no loan, my son has paid it all off, and my daughter-in-law takes my pension and lends it with interest. She did everything herself, and when my son found out about it he went crazy.